- You don’t have to be a stay-at-home mom to be a good mom. Dads are capable of raising children, too, just as women are capable of serving in wars.
- Do not repeat your parents’ mistakes. My mom didn’t believe in whipping because she was whipped as a child, and it was always a dehumanizing experience. Contrary to conservative belief, my brother and I didn’t fear our parents and turned out to be good citizens and innately kind human beings.
- Just because you love your children differently, doesn’t mean you don’t love them equally.
- The military is a worthy career choice.
- Tell your daughter she’s pretty. (Her parents never did and so she grew up believing she was ugly.)
- Cancer schmancer. You get it a second time, you fight it a second time. Fighting till the end doesn’t make one’s death any less “dignified.”
- Perfectionism can be a hindrance to starting and finishing things.
- If you want your kid to be a Christian, take them to church. My mom has often said she regretted not being stronger about this with my brother. Church attendance doesn’t make you a Christian, but it can help solidify the foundation poured at home.
- Kelly is not a girl’s name. American girls stole it. (My brother’s name is Kelly Morgan.)
- Even if your parents weren’t perfect, it is your duty to take care of them for raising you to maturity.
- It’s okay to get really pissed off and throw things. Just don’t throw them at people.
- Let your child pursue that which moves them. For my brother, it’s music; for me, it’s writing. Encourage them.
- Empathy is one of the greatest of all virtues.
- If you have one good friend in a lifetime, you’re lucky.
- Marry who you want, regardless of what your parents think.
- Eat your meat well-done. Her dad grew up on a farm and knew the deal. If you look like a hick for ordering it that way, so be it.
- Don’t be afraid to accept help, even if that help is from the government (as long as you are trying to better yourself in the process, in which you will be paying it all back via taxes).
- Dad’s food might give you ringworm.
- I was a baby before I was born.
- Let your children know they can always come home if they need to. Love really is an open door.
And this Sunday’s Instagram post, which seemed befitting the holiday:
She had them put down their devices
to get a CLUE over some CHESS pie.
Mom had the MONOPOLY on sociability
that night she took a RISK by shaking things up.
When they all made plans for another night,
she saw it hadn’t been a TRIVIAL PURSUIT.